| Dating is a game that most men do not know | | | | your first get together both of you will probably |
| how to play. | | | | be a little excited and a lot nervous. That's not |
| As Extracted from "Dirty Pickup Secrets" guide (a | | | | necessarily a good combination for getting to |
| pick up girls guide), there are so many steps | | | | know someone. Focus on the positive |
| involved in picking up girls, namely: Preparation, | | | | characteristics of the other person. People like to |
| Assessment, Approach, Attraction, Qualify, | | | | talk about themselves. If a certain topic brings a |
| Connection, Arousal, Disarm, ... | | | | smile then continue the conversation with |
| So if your current pickup or dating strategy is not | | | | questions that have to be answered by more |
| working, it might be time for you to consider | | | | than one word. For example Let's say you're |
| changing your tactic and brush up your skills in | | | | talking about jazz. Don't ask Do you like XYZ |
| these areas. | | | | musician That can be answered by one word, |
| Bellow, we have listed down 5 basic tips for | | | | either yes or no. Ask What is it about XYZ |
| picking up girls. | | | | musician that you like |
| 5 Tips for Pick up Girls Guides | | | | 4. Stay relaxed no matter what happens. You |
| 1. It may sound counterintuitive but the best | | | | only have control over your own behavior. You |
| secret of pick up girls secrets is to be yourself. | | | | can't help the weather, the busboy who dumps |
| Even if you're only looking for one night of fun, it's | | | | the beer tray on you, or the fact the other |
| difficult to maintain a persona that isn't you. | | | | person isn't what you expected. If you stay |
| Eventually either the strain of maintaining a | | | | relaxed you're open to new possibilities. If you get |
| façade will ruin the evening or the real you | | | | stressed you can miss opportunities because |
| will come shining through. Either way it raises | | | | stress forces you to focus inwardly. |
| questions. Questions you probably don't want to | | | | 5. Take care of the basics. Clean, well dressed, |
| answer. | | | | and, shall we say prepared If that's what's on |
| 2. Stay positive about yourself. People live up to | | | | your mind take care of the necessities ahead of |
| expectations. We've all met Donnie Downer, you | | | | time. Scrounging around or stopping at a drug |
| know the guy who expects the worse and usually | | | | store can kill the mood quickly for both of you. |
| gets it. Make a list of your positive attributes. Do | | | | Be yourself, stay positive about yourself, stay |
| you have a fun sense of humour? Are you a | | | | positive about the other person, be relaxed and |
| good listener? Do you take care of yourself? Do | | | | take care of the basics. |
| you have a nice smile, great teeth or good body? | | | | Last but not least, stop worrying about the |
| Before you go out for the evening run over your | | | | outcome. Stop worrying about how things will end |
| list. Who wouldn't want to go out with someone | | | | up. Stop worrying about what she'll think or say. |
| like you? | | | | More importantly, it means, stop worrying about |
| 3. Stay positive about the other person. If this is | | | | upsetting or annoying her. |