| Female bartenders are pretty smart when it | | | | deal with them without getting in the road. |
| comes to being aware of how men make | | | | 3) Respect the fact that she's at work. This is |
| advances on them. They see all types of men | | | | her place of business. If the nights slow, then |
| every night they work. Hapless drunks who just | | | | spend more time talking. Find out what her |
| want someone to be with; young studs who see | | | | interests and hobbies are, as well as letting her |
| themselves as God's gift to women; guys who | | | | know about yours. If the club's hopping, set back |
| get rejected by everyone else, so they make | | | | and let her do her job. Complement her with |
| their last ditch effort with the barmaid. | | | | sincerity on skill as a bartender and her people |
| Here's some tips to help that female bartender, | | | | skills when the chance arises. She'll appreciate that. |
| who you thinks is hot, change her mind and go | | | | 4) Get to know her name. You might think that |
| out with you. | | | | this should be done up front, but this is one |
| 1) She's the only girl in the room. A lot of guys | | | | situation where it's better to take some time to |
| that try to get somewhere with the barmaid | | | | find this out. She needs some space to get to |
| have already made the circuit around the room. | | | | know you a little before becoming friendly to the |
| And she watched them make that circuit. No girl | | | | point of sharing names. |
| wants to be someone's desperate attempt to get | | | | 5) Tip appropriately. Too little and you look stingy. |
| laid. You've got to pay attention to her, and her | | | | Too much and you're just trying to make time |
| alone. Don't even start conversation with other | | | | with her. Just tip with a hand full of change. An |
| women in the bar. | | | | average amount. |
| 2) Don't cling. Yes, pay attention to her alone, but | | | | At his point you'll simply need to persevere and |
| don't be clingy about it. She has to deal with a lot | | | | plan ahead. As long as you are willing to take the |
| of people, and sometimes there are going to be | | | | time and effort to reach the woman who works |
| other men, usually who have had too much drink, | | | | tending a bar, you will be able to have a good |
| that are going to demand her attention. | | | | relationship with her when the moment comes. |
| Remember, she's not had a drink all night. Let her | | | | |