| I know it seems hard to believe, but the profile | | | | As far as describing myself, I won't bore you by |
| you're about to read elicited around 4,000 emails | | | | telling you my friends think I'm "laid back" or |
| from women on one online dating site. I'm not | | | | "down-to-earth" or "super-awesome" or anything |
| trying to impress anyone with this stat, because | | | | else. What does that prove? They're my friends. |
| getting a lot of emails on a dating site doesn't | | | | Of course they're going to say nice things about |
| necessarily lead to anything good. But since online | | | | me. And even if my friends didn't have anything |
| dating is a numbers game, the more contacts you | | | | nice to say about me, I would still claim that they |
| can make the better your chances of having | | | | think I'm a great guy. Who wouldn't? So I'm not |
| some success. Creating a compelling dating profile | | | | going to try to convince you that random people |
| that appeals to women is, for most of us, our | | | | think highly of me. I'm confident my words will |
| best chance for success. | | | | prove that I'm someone worth getting to know. |
| I'm providing one of my dating profiles as an | | | | Or, at the very least, that I'm not a complete |
| example of a unique approach to profile writing | | | | psycho.:-) |
| that men can use to their benefit. The way you | | | | When it comes to personal relationships, I try to |
| express yourself in your dating profile can mean | | | | be the best friend or partner I can be. I can get |
| the difference between success and failure. Ask | | | | along with just about anyone and take pride in the |
| any woman who's tried online dating and she'll | | | | fact that I rarely get angry. I believe that |
| probably tell you that a unique, well written men's | | | | differences of opinion should be resolved with a |
| profile sticks out like a sore thumb on most dating | | | | calm conversation rather than a shouting match. |
| sites. Creating an effective dating profile takes | | | | I'm not perfect, and I don't expect you to be |
| some effort, but you'll realize it's well worth it | | | | without flaws. Like most people, I'm not hoping to |
| when your inbox starts filling up with emails from | | | | meet someone who's perfect, but rather |
| women who previously would not have | | | | someone who's perfect for me. |
| considered contacting you. Trust me when I tell | | | | When describing my ideal woman, I don't like to |
| you that words resonate with women more than | | | | say "she should be this" or "she should be that", |
| you can imagine. With my help, you can create a | | | | although I'm always attracted to someone with a |
| dating profile like the one you're about to read | | | | nice smile and pretty eyes. Beyond physicality, I |
| and enjoy the success you deserve. | | | | think that honesty, adaptability, and a sense of |
| Headline: A unique and compelling profile awaits | | | | humor are crucial for a strong relationship. |
| you! | | | | Although I don't really have a "type" when it |
| Profile Body: I've noticed quite a few women's | | | | comes to personality, we might hit it off if: |
| profiles with the following headline: "Do guys even | | | | 1. You respect the opinions of others, especially |
| read this?" That's a fair question. Let's face it, | | | | those with whom you vehemently disagree. |
| men tend to be more shallow than women when | | | | 2. You would rather take the scenic route. |
| it comes to looks. However, some men, myself | | | | 3. You appreciate the beauty of things that are |
| included, have learned that being shallow is | | | | not for sale. |
| ultimately unsatisfying and a waste of time. | | | | 4. You believe that being right is overrated. |
| Spending time with someone who has only good | | | | 5. You appreciate the difference between having |
| looks to offer gets old in a hurry, at least for me. | | | | what you want and wanting what you have. |
| I won't pretend chemistry isn't important, because | | | | 6. You treat a busboy the same as you would |
| it is. But true chemistry can exist only if there's | | | | treat a business associate. |
| something more than physical attraction at work. | | | | 7. You're quick to empathize and slow to judge. |
| So, to answer your question, (if you're one of the | | | | Conclusion: Thanks for checking out my profile. If |
| women who has posed that question) - Yes, | | | | I haven't convinced you that I'm someone worth |
| some men do read women's profiles to see if | | | | getting to know better, would you mind |
| there might be some potential for more than just | | | | forwarding my profile to your cute friend, |
| physical attraction. Now that you know I actually | | | | neighbor, or co-worker whose hot sister has |
| read women's profiles, it's only fair that you | | | | recently become available? What?!? You can't |
| continue reading this profile........:-) | | | | blame a guy for trying!! |