| Some time ago, a hot Friday night, I was sitting in | | | | if you are looking for a real relationship in Pattaya |
| a popular Pattaya gogo bar in Walking Street. I | | | | then you won't find it in the bars. Yes, some |
| think it was Baccara or maybe Shark, but that's | | | | couples have emerged from the union of bar girl - |
| not important. I got there at 10 pm with a friend. | | | | bar patron, but most relationships fail because of |
| Now, none of us are regulars in Pattaya's gogo | | | | lack of trust over the way you met. When you're |
| bars, but we do go once in a while to have a few | | | | in the bar, you are per definition a customer and |
| drinks, share some laughs and of course chat with | | | | that means it's the bar girl/hostess job to sell |
| the very attractive girls in Baccara. Anyway, the | | | | drinks. That's the job description. That is no good |
| place was packed, absolutely packed, not a seat | | | | in my opinion. Relationships should not be entered |
| open. There were certainly some very good | | | | into from a monetary relation. |
| looking girls that night, but they were all busy | | | | The good thing is that there are attractive, single |
| chatting up the latest fresh-of-the-boat tourist | | | | women everywhere in Pattaya. There are girls |
| that they could talk into buying them drinks all | | | | working in the hotels, in the malls, the offices, the |
| night. There was probably 3 punters to each 1 | | | | restaurants, everywhere! Many of the would like |
| girls, which made it seem a lot like being back | | | | to meet a Western man or at least they are |
| hom. It struck me: There's got to be a better | | | | intrigued about the adventure and freedom that |
| way to meet Pattaya girls and there is! | | | | comes with dating a foreigner, but they would |
| I think we can all agree that barhopping in Pattaya | | | | never dream of setting foot in a bar or disco. |
| is great fun and it would take forever to see it all, | | | | Most Western guys don't notice these girls, cause |
| but there comes a time when the bar scene gets | | | | they act more like traditional Thai girls. They may |
| a little stale. For some Pattaya residents this | | | | giggle or send a shy smile to a man they would |
| happens faster than others, but most eventually | | | | like to get to know, but that's it, and most |
| scale back on the partying. | | | | tourists simply do not pick up on these subbtle |
| That's not really the reason for looking for | | | | invitations. |
| Pattaya girls outside the bar though. The thing is, | | | | |