You're Such a Good Cook You Need to Slap Yourself

Okay. I'm sure you are a phenomenal cook! Youbreath along with my time (and that of the other
should have your own show on the Food Channel,hungry customers). I'm not going to tell the cook
your own restaurant and all that jazz. But in thethe instructions you just gave me, because s/he
mean time, you've come to eat at the restaurantwill laugh at me at best, or tell me off in a worst
that I work at. And I need to enlighten you on acase scenario. I'm not in the mood for either
few things as far as how (and by whom) thereaction, because the ultimate result will be the
food is prepared.same. S/he will cook your steak according to the
Point of Enlightenment #1: I do not cook the foodrules, regulations, and specifications of this
that you eat at my restaurant. In fact, I prettyrestaurant.  If you want it medium, you'll get it
much can't cook at all! So, when you go into anmedium. But if you want it mediumish with a hint
elaborate dissertation about the way the cookof med well, beaten three times on one side and
should have seasoned the meat, the way theyfive on the other, with a dash of Lawry's
should have diced the vegetables, the way youseasoning, a soupcon of paprika and a kiss of
always marinate things and so on and so on-Halt!honey, then go home and make it that way! I'm
Cease and desist!  I know less than zero aboutsure it will taste awesome.
marinades, seasonings, dicing or slicing. Perhaps ifPoint of Enlightenment #4: I cannot stand there
we're discussing a sandwich I can hold up my endand monitor your steak so that it comes out in
of the conversation. A good ratio of Sara Leebetween medium and med well. A customer
lunch meat to Kraft singles is something I consideractually asked me to do that. I told her that we
myself to be a bit of an expert on. But as sooncould do her steak medium, which for us is pink all
as we delve into the area of sandwiches thatthe way through, or we could do it med-well,
contain grilled meats and toasted buns (as all ofwhich is a thin strip of pink in the middle. She
our sandwiches do), then that's it, I've got to tapinformed me that she wanted it to be in-between
out.those two. When I informed her that the cook
Point of Enlightenment #2: See, here's the thing. Icould only do one or the other, she demanded
can list all of the ingredients in the foods wethat I stand at the grill and stop him when the
serve. I can tell you that we grill everything on asteak was in between medium and med-well.  I
flat top grill. Stuff like that. But of you want topainstakingly and politely explained to her that was
debate the various methods of how the cooknever going to happen, and then went in the back
goes about conducting said grilling, again, that's aand had a serious laugh about the misguided
tap out on my end. What you really need to do issense of over-entitlement that people can have.
talk to the cook. But you can't, because that isn'tHere's the deal: most restaurants do well,
allowed at just about any of your typical sit-downmed-well, medium, med-rare, and rare. Period. If
restaurants. They don't let you march back to theyou want med-med-rare, well, see the italicized
kitchen and give the cook a crash course onstatement above in point #3.
cooking things the way you do it at home. Sorry.Folks, here's the bottom line.  I want to make
Point of Enlightenment #3: It doesn't matter howyou happy, I truly do. But our cooks are not
much of my time (and the time of the otherpersonal chefs, and if you are such a diva that
tables around you in my section; more on Theyou need one, I suggest you find a way to afford
Customer Who Believes They Are the Onlyone. And if you can't stomach a meal unless it
Customer in the Restaurant in another post) youtastes like your food or the sumptuous eats your
take up with a detailed explanation of how youmomma always makes, then don't go out to eat.
cook steak that you expect me to go back andBecause your momma doesn't expect a tip.
relay to the cooks- you're just wasting your